I’m a woman, a mother, a daughter, a sister, a business owner and entrepreneur, and soon to be ex-wife.   And above all I’m a survivor.  I will get through this nightmare of a divorce and come out better than ever.

I have two wonderful children and I thank God every day for the opportunity to be their mom.

After 20 years with my husband, I found out he had a secret life of sex with random women, guy trip orgies, and at least one actual affair.  I was in shock and disbelief.

This is my story about coming to grips with the situation I found myself in, discovering who I am, why I stayed too long, and learning to love myself again.

Because our lives were so entwined, I found out much more than most women find out about their husbands’ infidelity, why it happens, how they think, and what it can do to them.

I hope that what I share with you will help you either save your marriage or get you out of a really bad one.  I’m not here to judge because we all have our baggage and reasons for what we do. But I am here to lend an ear and give you any information I have.